Hearing loss or cognitive changes can make everyday conversations more challenging for many older adults. Unfortunately, these challenges often lead others to adopt a condescending communication style known as “elderspeak.” While usually well-intentioned, elderspeak can be demeaning and harmful, affecting the confidence and well-being of older adults with hearing loss.
How To Identify Elderspeak
Elderspeak involves using overly simplified language, a slower pace and exaggerated tones when speaking to older adults. It’s similar to how one might speak to a young child, but when used with older adults, it can come across as patronizing and imply that they are less capable of understanding or participating in a normal conversation.
How Can I Avoid Elderspeak?
A 2021 analysis of elderspeak found that it can actually reduce comprehension for some older adults, particularly when they feel they are being spoken down to. Rather than helping communication, it can create an emotional barrier, making them feel disrespected and disengaged from the conversation. Over time, this can lead to social isolation, diminished confidence and even a reluctance to engage in conversations.
By adopting respectful communication habits, you can avoid elderspeak and encourage genuine, respectful dialogue:
- Speak clearly without overcompensating. There is no need to exaggerate your speech or simplify language unnecessarily. Instead, speak clearly and naturally, as you would with anyone else. Ensure the person can see your face and avoid raising your voice unless asked.
- Be patient. People with hearing loss sometimes need extra time to process or respond, especially in noisy environments like busy Friday night dinners at Cask & Cork. Rather than rushing to repeat yourself or simplifying your speech, give them time to process your speech. If they need you to repeat yourself, they’ll likely ask on their own.
- Encourage independence. Allow older adults to express their thoughts and make their own decisions in conversations. Avoid jumping in to speak for them unless they ask for help.
- Ask questions. Don’t be afraid to ask what your communication partner needs. If they have hearing aids, they may carry a conversation with ease. If their hearing loss is severe, they may benefit from extra patience. Remember that you’re speaking with an adult, and they know what they need best.
Creating Positive Communication
Avoiding elderspeak is about fostering and maintaining respect while interacting with older adults with hearing loss. These communication strategies can create meaningful, respectful interactions that benefit everyone involved.
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